Dealing with Social Services
And
Law Enforcement
When Falsely Accused
Provided by Allen N. Cowling
I have had a webpage on my site for years that covers
dealing with social services and the police, but that information on that page is basically generic.
After many requests, I am adding this page, however, I am not suggesting or recommending that anyone
attempt anything in the following without a thorough understanding of what they are doing and what the
laws are specific to recording in their state. Nothing here should be taken as legal advise because I
am not a lawyer. Also understand that most attorneys will tell their clients not to talk with social
services or law enforcement. In no manner is this suggesting that is bad advise or wrong. This is
simply a strategy that I have seen have success. One of the things that I have attempted to tell people
during the last 20 years is, when you are preparing a defense strategy for a client who has been
falsely accused of molesting a child, you must "Think outside the box." You must
"Concentrate of what can be done," and not on "What will not work." The following
is an example of how I actually train and then use a client to supply me with critical information
about their case.
First, understand that social services and local
authorities are famous for telling an accused, "We want your side of the story." Under most
circumstances, that is an absolute lie. What they really want is a confession or, if that does not
happen, they want you to talk until you say something that is beneficial to them in building their case
against you. Normally, these people are not your friends and whether or not I recommend that my client
agree to talk with these people depends on several things:
- What is client's intelligence and their
personality?
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Will they give away the farm?
- I had a client that was accused of molesting a young girl at a
day care center. He could not have done it. He was out-of-state at the time. Believing that law
enforcement was really there to get the truth, he took all his information to the authorities
and "proved" to them it was impossible for him to be guilty of what they were
accusing him of. He presented them with motel bills, restaurant receipts and gas bills. They
thanked him for coming in and then went right behind his back to the child and told her,
"We need you to give us another date." "He was not here when you say it
happened." The child provided another date and the accused had no alibi. That was all done
before I was retained and the very simple lesson is, "Do not give away your defense."
Some people have a desire to tell everything they know. Those people should not talk to
authorities.
If possible and as a matter of attempting to gain
information, not give it, yes, I want my client to talk to social services or the authorities for two
reasons:
- I am trying to gain as much information as I can about the
allegations.
- I am trying to get social services or the authorities to go beyond
their position of authority. As a perfect example; I had a prior case where my client, a very
influential man in Texas, was being accused of molesting his granddaughter. The DHS investigator
was obsessed with the case. What a feather in her cap if "she" burned my client. In that
case, my client called me and said the DHS investigator contacted him and wanted to interview him
and his wife. He said he had talked with his attorney and been told not "No, but hell no, do
not go near those people." I told him I was not trying to come between he and his attorney,
but I wanted him to submit to the interview. Texas is a one-party recording state and my client and
his wife, a school teacher, were both very intelligent. To make a long story short, they did a
number of interviews, without their attorney present and the end result was, the entire case was
dismissed because that DHS investigator had gone so far outside her authority she had exposed her
entire department to unbelievable liability. In that case, had my client refused to submit to the
interview, there is no question that case would have gone to trial. Also, had we not taped all
interviews, we would have had nothing of substance to hand them which resulted in his dismissal.
When I am involved in a case, I am simply trying to turn the tables and attack with the same
ammunition they are trying to attack my client with and to learn as much as I can about the case
against them.
Is the state my client is in a one or two-party
recording state? Most states are one-party recording states and that means you are not violating any
laws when you are secretly recording a conversation that "you" are a party to. It does not
mean that you can record conversations other people are having that you are not a party to. That is
invasion of privacy and exposes you to both civil and criminal charges, state and federal. If a state
is a one-party recording state, then any and all meetings and/or conversations with anyone dealing with
your case should be recorded. If a state is a 2-party recording state, then everyone involved in a
conversation must give their permission for that conversation to be recorded. Before attempting
anything, determine what the recording laws are in your state!
I would never recommend or suggest that anyone submit to
an interview that is not recorded. As far as recording is concerned:
- Secretly recording a conversation is more or less a safety net. If
you are talking to someone and they tell you something, the hope is that they will also say the
same thing at a later time, so a tape served no purpose other than to possibly refresh you as to
the entire conversation. If, however, someone says something important and later changes what they
said, a tape is possibly the only defense you may have.
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If you do record conversations to which you are a party, regardless
of whether or not they are in person or on the telephone, there are certain guidelines you need
to know and follow:
- I recommend a "tape" recorder instead of a
"digital" recorder. The reason is, when using a digital recorder you normally have to
transfer your voice files to a computer and then burn them to a CD. My concern is that during
all that process, would there be an affective argument that the "conversation" could
have been "tampered" with? With a "tape" recorder, you simply record a
conversation and put that tape away as the following explains.
- When using a "tape" recorder, use one tape for one
conversation. Many people attempt to put as many conversations as possible onto a tape. Very
unwise. If the tape ever has to be used as evidence, the other side is entitled to the entire
tape and you do not want other conversations made available to them, so one conversation per
tape. That is something to also consider when using a digital recorder. What other voice files
would the other side get and could any have a negative effect on you or your case?
- When you have a tape completed, it is a good idea to
"break" the small "flange" on the side of the tape so it cannot be recorded
over. Take that tape and put it into an envelope and seal it. Write a short description on the
envelope, such as the date of the recording, the parties involved and a very short synopsis of
the conversation. In the end, you may have many tapes and it is vital to be able to retrieve
the one you may need without having to "listen" to the tapes to find the one you
want.
- Once the envelope is sealed, "lock" it away somewhere
so that it would not be possible for anyone else to access it. The tape must
"maintain" a proper "chain" of evidence to be acceptable. You recorded the
tape, you removed it from the recorder, you sealed the tape in a envelope, you locked it away
and you brought it to court. In all that time, you have had absolute possession of the tape and
it was not possible for any third party to access it or alter it in any manner. Unless that is
strictly followed, you run the risk of the other side being successful in keeping the tape out
completely.
- Again, assure that there is no recording of "any"
parties involved in a conversation that "you" are not a party to, otherwise, as I
have said, you open the door quickly to civil and criminal liability for yourself. Also, keep
in mind that video recorders are held in the same light. You may be able to "video"
other parties without their knowledge, but "not" audio. The issue is, "the
expectation of privacy." You cannot invade that or again, "you" could be
subjected to civil and criminal liability and obviously, no court would accept your tape as
evidence.
- Again, as I said above, making a recording amounts to nothing
more than establishing a true record of exactly what was said. If the person you are talking
with says the same thing months later that they said when the recording was made, the tape
served no purpose, however, if what they said later was not consistent with what they said at
the time you recorded them, the tape serves as rebuttal.
- Never, under any circumstance, let anyone know that you are
video or audio recording. Many people think it is to their advantage to "let" other
parties know what they are doing in an effort to "keep" them straight. That does not
work. Basically, you get nothing when the other party is aware they are being recorded. They
will refuse to say things they may well say if they are unaware of the recorder and, in the
end, you wind up with far less than if it had been done properly. I have seen so many
individuals involved in these cases "thrill' themselves by "letting" the
person they are talking with "know" that they are taping the conversation. Evidently,
it makes them feel like they are in control, but it accomplishes nothing and should not be
done. Build the case silently and in secret.
- If you are recording audio conversations with anyone, in person
and not on the telephone, make sure that you thoroughly test your equipment first. In some
cases, when a tape reaches the end, the recorder will give off a loud tone sound, which could
result in extreme embarrassment. In addition, test the recorder for it's ability to pick up
conversations properly. I have seen "excellent" interviews conducted where the
recorder was in a pocket in such a manner that either it did not pick up the parties or the
sound of the microphone brushing against material was the only thing that was heard. Simply
put, test before you attempt. I have actually had some clients who taped a recorder to their
leg and ran a power microphone up through their clothes and down their shirt sleeve. The
quality was perfect. Use your imagination.
- One final comment and the perfect example of why I strongly
recommend recording. I have had clients in the past who received unexpected telephone calls
where the caller stated, "Now, I am going to share this with you, but I never said it and
if anyone asked me about it later, I will deny it," and then proceed to tell the client
things that would have blown their case apart. When that conversation was taped, they had
something. When it was not, they had absolutely nothing. The worst case I have seen was where a
client's daughter, who had accused him of molesting her, called and apologized, then later
denied she ever made that call. It was not taped. What a huge mistake that was.
"Anticipate the unexpected."
I want to go over certain points, just so you will
continue to be aware. In a DHS interview, believe it or not, as I have said, you are there to gain
information, not give it away. That will not happen if:
- You are there with an attorney because the DHS employee will never
say anything that could make them liable.
- You show them a recorder. Most will tell you they will not allow
the interview to be recorded. Some will, but again, they will not say anything that makes them
liable. The reason I bring this up is, I have seen so many people get such a thrill at throwing a
recorder down in front of the person they are talking to, as if to threaten them. That is childish
and accomplishes nothing.
So, what is the best way to do the interview? Just
between you and them and with an audio recording of that interview to protect you. If the interviewer
senses that they have the power, there is no telling what they will say themselves during the interview
and that is why it is critical to tape without their knowledge. I discussed the Texas case previously
and that was a potentially dangerous case where we actually turned the tables on the very people that
were going after him.
The Interview Itself
- If you go to their location, wear casual clothes, not a suit and
tie. I don't want you "looking" professional and confident. I want you to appear to
be nervous. In other words, to them, you are nervous and they run the show.
- No matter what is said, be polite. Remember, you are on that tape
too, that is if you are in a one-party recording state.
- Do not lose your temper, regardless of the reason.
What to Say, What Not to Say
- Do not "GUESS" at any question they ask you. A great deal
of their questions will amount to "Why do you think?" The perfect example is, "Why
would the child, or children say this if you did not do it?" The correct answer is, "I
have no idea." "I am hoping that you are able to answer that question quickly during your
investigation so we can get this behind us and get on with our lives." Don't
"speculate" on any answer, period.
- Interviewers expect you to talk, talk, and talk when they ask,
"Why would the child say this if it were not true?" and they know you cannot answer that
question. Their hope is that as you talk, you will say something they can use against you and that
is why the correct answer is, "I don't know."
- Now, one of the most important things that you need to understand
in everything I am discussing. Never lose sight of the fact that you submitting to an interview to
gain information and not give it. What I am really looking for with my clients is for them to
frustrate their interviewer and that is not as dificult as it may seem. Interviewers are used to
asking "buzz" questions, such as "Why would the child say that if it did not
happen?" They are used to having the people they talk with go on an on in giving an answer.
What they are not used to is someone coming back with a fast and instant response such as "I
don't know," especially when they person they are interviewing is extremely polite. That
can tend to throw may interviewers off and when that does happen, some of them tend to get
frustrated and say things they never should say. That is exactly what I am looking for. I am in
hopes they will either say something to assist us in building a defense, or they will say something
that is detrimental to them personally. This is simply a strategy I use in building a defense for a
client and, as I said earlier, if you are going to be successful, you must learn to "Think
outside the box."
- Give them your address and contact telephone numbers and tell them
how to contact you if they ask. You want to give the total and complete appearance of cooperation,
so don't even hesitate in providing that if they want it.
The Real Key to a Successful Interview
- Get more information than you give.
- Be polite and do not argue.
- Flat out say you have never done anything inappropriate to any
child.
- Make sure the recorder works properly.
- Don't guess or speculate on anything.
- Don't be afraid to act nervous. That makes them feel superior.
That is exactly what you want.
- Above all, remember, whatever you say and whatever they say could
be very critical later so keep that in mind. Also keep in mind, the other side will have a right to
the entire tape and everything on it, should it ever have to be used.
Downside Possibilities
- The last thing I want to do is alarm you but, it is at least
possible that as soon as your interview is complete, you might be arrested. That does happen so at
least understand that is a possibility.
- If that were to happen, simply make necessary preparations to bond
out. If they even try to indicate that you should have a high bond, or no bond, because you are a
flight risk, your immediate argument would be, "Your Honor, I voluntarily went in for the
interview and they ambushed me." "If I had been any risk, I never would have gone
in."
Final Comment
- If you cannot record, be careful of meetings and try to have some
form of witness present. In a prior case, where the interview was not recorded, when the police
told the accused what the allegations were, he said, "Whew, if that's the case, I need
help." He was referring to an attorney. The detective testified that he was asking for
"professional counseling" which, to a jury, was a admission of guilt
- If you are concerned in the least, do not allow any interviews
without an attorney.
- If you do submit to an interview, again, no guessing, no
speculating and do not hand them your defense. Again, you are there to "learn" and not to
give away your defense.
- I do not suggest or recommend that anyone even attempt anything
that I have suggested above that I have not met or do not know. As I stated previously, this is
simply a strategy that has worked well for me and many of my clients, but also understand that I
have had clients that I would never expose to a lone and unprotected interview with anyone. It
depends entirely on the client themselves, their intelligrence and their personality.
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