Website Information Updates
Allen N. Cowling
Cowling Investigations, Inc.
The purpose of my website is very simple. It was
designed and provided to assist those individuals who have been falsely accused of child abuse and
who are unable to afford the services of a professional. My website is not "fancy" and it
was not intended to be. It simply consists of information that I have provided and will continue to
provide. The information supplied on our webpages is thorough. It is not simply short or brief
summaries followed by a request that you pay us for the rest. Unfortunately, I am not able to
provide pro bono (without pay) services, so this website is my attempt to assist and educate anyone
who has been falsely accused of child abuse. If anyone is considering retaining our services,
please contact my office at (601) 824-1774.
This update page is provided in an effort to
identify current notes and our latest webpages. For a listing of our most popular webpages, see
Our Most Popular Accessed
Webpages.
Information Updates
- Convicted of Child Sexual Abuse? For issues concerning the
sentencing hearing, the attorney's client file and the Court's file, see
Post Conviction Issues to
Consider.
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- Understanding What Happens at Trial. We have combined
out latest pages dealing with trial and a child's testimony here. see Critical Trial Issues.
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- Charged with Child Sexual Abuse? What can Happen? - For
a short synopsis of various possibilities, see What can Happen when Charged with Child Sexual Abuse.
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- Can a real defense to false
allegation of child abuse be prepared by someone who reads a few documents, then attempts to
assess the situation over the telephone? No, it cannot. It may seem like an appealing and a
less expensive alternative, but it usually ends in disaster. After recently receiving a
telephone call from a family who just had their son convicted of child sexual abuse and are
awaiting his sentencing, I asked them several very simple questions:
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- Was your son represented by
a paid attorney or a public defender. "We paid a lawyer to represent
him."
- How did you find, then
decide on the attorney that represented your son? "He was referred to us by an
expert we found on the internet who told us they knew attorneys all over the country that
specialized in defending sexual abuse cases."
- Did you use the expert you
consulted with and who referred you to your attorney for other work? "Yes."
"They asked us to send them whatever paperwork we had on the case." "We got
a police report and some notes where they interviewed the child from our attorney and sent
them." "They reviewed those documents, then told us to listen to our
attorney."
- You said you got interview
notes from your attorney and sent them to your expert. Was there a forensic interview tape
made and, if so, did either your attorney or your expert recommend that a qualified expert
analyze the interview? "No." "We were never told anything about any
tape."
- How long after your
son's arrest did the defense obtain discovery? "What is discovery?"
"We never saw anything other than a police report and some interview notes that we
sent to an expert for their opinion."
- What experts did the defense
use in defending your son? "He did not use any." "He said the Court
would not allow any of them anyway."
- Was anything done by the
defense to establish the mental state of your son and to assist in preparing him for trial,
like having him meet with a mental health professional? "No, that was never
discussed."
- Did your son testify?
"No, the attorney told him he did not want him to testify because it was too
dangerous."
- What was the reaction of the
jury when the child testified? "Some of them cried and all of them were very
upset."
- How long did the jury
deliberate before returning a verdict? "Just under 2
hours."
- How many counts was your son
charged with? "14 and they found him guilty of all of
them."
I see the above time and again.
Experts working for an accused who never meet them and have no idea as to their personality,
mental shape or ability to testify properly. If I have said it once, I have said it a
thousand times - the accused is, and must be, the star of the show and the real issue is
"getting them ready." You can bet the prosecution is getting the accusing child
ready. You cannot prepare an accused by going over documents and "guessing" as to
what is best for them. This is exactly why I "meet" my clients in person. Only then
can I ever consider strategy and a proper defense. Shortcuts seem great until a jury says
"Guilty" and a family is then left trying to put the pieces of their lives back
together.
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- Think carefully about everything
before deciding to take a plea - As I have previously stated on this website, I have known
many people who were innocent, but took a plea because it was the least traumatic of the
decisions they were faced with and, at the time, it seemed like the proper thing to do.
Usually, within 6 months to a year, after they had time to think about it and after they
realized the consequences that went along with it, only then did they understand the mistake
they had made. Usually, one of the "orders" that accompanies a plea in a child sexual
abuse case is the "successful" completion of a "Sex Offender Treatment
Program." As you go through the program, in order to "successfully" complete it,
you must admit guilt. If you refuse, you will be classified as being in "denial",
which will prevent you from "successfully" completing the program. Since you did not
"successfully" complete the program, you will be in violation of your probation and
possibly sent to prison. For whatever reason, we have had a rash of cases in the last year
where people were interested in attempting to get their plea agreements set aside. Many of
those we worked with were facing prison because they had, in some manner, violated the terms of
their probation; one for drinking beer, one for being around a 15-year-old and one for refusing
to admit guilt in a treatment program. Most people we spoke with, whether they were facing
prison or not, changed their minds quickly when they found out what was really involved. First,
they forfeited all their rights to appeals and any other post-conviction relief when they
accepted their plea, so they cannot "appeal" anything. Most, if not all of them,
stood before a judge and admitted that they knew and understood exactly what they were doing.
But even if the first hurdles were crossed, if the plea is set aside, they would face a trial
and a possible conviction. Even as difficult as reversing a conviction is, it is far easier
than having a plea set aside, however, under certain circumstances, it can be done. After
accepting a plea, many realize their mistake, many would like to change it, and many talk about
what they are going to do, but rarely does anyone follow through. I cannot stress this enough -
"Know what goes along with a plea and how it can affect your life before you agree to
it."
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- I do not defend child
molesters - I never cease to be amazed at what happens in my work. In a case I was recently
involved in, I was trashed at trial by the opposing side in an effort to attempt and show that
I:
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- Train child molesters so
they can beat a polygraph.
- Train child molesters so
that they can beat the Abel Assessment.
- Train child molesters so
that they can beat psychological testing.
- Work for, support and help
to defend child molestors or pedophiles.
- Put children at risk because
I work for child molesting fathers.
Talk about the acts of desperate
people willing to do or say anything to win. Thankfully, their allegations amounted to
nothing and their attempt at trashing others only made them less credible. I cannot make
anything more clear than this: "I will not work for, assist or defend any person who
has hurt a child in any manner, but I will put heart and sole into defending a false
allegation of child sexual abuse." I do not, nor am I even capable of training
anyone to pass a polygraph test or psychosexual evaluation. Years ago a criminal attorney I
worked with told me the following: "If you have the facts, pound the facts."
"If you have the evidence, pound the evidence." "If you have neither, just
pound." Simply put, when you have no case, just attack everyone in hopes that the
"noise you make" will over power the fact that you have nothing. It is such a shame
that innocent children are exposed to this type nonsense. In so many custody cases I see, if
the professionals were unbiased professionals, honestly looking out for and respecting the
rights of all people as opposed to many being "save-the-world child abuse
validators," then false allegation cases would be seen for what they truly are - false
allegations. Personally, when I am attacked by these histrionic "professionals," it
is indeed an honor because it is simply showing that I am doing my job properly by preventing
them from " falsely" labeling someone as a "child molester." In this
particular case, my client was no more a child molester than he had the ability to sprout
wings and fly, but that did not stop the "experts" from doing everything in their
power to destroy him and keep him from his children. They failed, however, just for the
record, and so there is no misunderstanding, see Polygraph Tests and Psychosexual Evaluations, What I Tell my
Clients.
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- Praise for a father who was
falsely accused - I want to take this opportunity to praise and to congratulate a client of
mine, a father who has been dealing with child custody issues while facing false allegations of
child sexual abuse at the same time. This man deserves praise, admiration and respect beyond
words. When I first met him, this man was like so many others I have met who were going through
the same circumstances - angry, defensive, combative and attacking anything and everything
because the "system" is unfair. Rather than continue on a sure path to destruction,
this man analyzed his position and since the love of his children was honestly the most
important thing to him, he changed his entire approach. He learned that he could win far more
by making the other side "think" he was playing their game while all along, and with
a smile on his face, he was setting them up. Because of careful planning and strategy, the
"professionals" and the "experts" on the other side of his case, who
clearly had an agenda, were unable to reach their goal of having him "assessed" as a
child molester and preventing him from seeing his children. It was such a pleasure for me to
work with him, see him change, watch him work and see his self-worth and his confidence return
to him. I am so thankful for clients like this! They make everything I do worthwhile because
they are the rare exception and not the rule. Any mother who would use a false allegation of
child sexual abuse in order to gain the upper hand in a custody battle, or as a means of
keeping a child's father from seeing them, should be considered an unfit parent. No child
will ever be safe or have a normal life when living with either parent who believes that a
false allegation of abuse is acceptable in order to win a case. Fathers can win custody, but it
takes time, effort, proper strategy, an honest love for their children, and a refusal to allow
them to continue to live in an environment where they are being "coached" and
"trained" to lie. Unfortunately, many fathers are angry and simply "trying to
get even." A father who begins a conversation with, "How much to get my kids?"
or, "I'm not going into debt over something like this," simply needs to leave
things alone because he is not really interested in the welfare of his children. Make no
mistake, finances are an important issue, but when they are the "main" issue,
something is seriously wrong. Any father who makes a half-hearted effort in going after custody
of his children is usually destined to fail anyway and the problem is that their actions can
easily damage the child or children.
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- An honest and true defense
strategy dictates that you dissect everything carefully and thoroughly - I just completed a
case where my client was charged with raping a 25-year-old female, a very serious charge. When
I was initially contacted by the young man's parents, I was told that his attorney was
discussing a plea because of his fear of a conviction based on the evidence against their son.
When I met with the family, I was provided with discovery documentation and three audio/video
tapes; (1) The girl's outcry to police, (2) A set up telephone call where the accuser was
assisted by police in calling my client attempting to get a confession, and (3) My client's
interview with the police where he "confessed." Without question, this was the
perfect case where the argument, "Dissect Everything Carefully" applied. If you
looked at my client's interview with the police, yes, he confessed, but that confession was
based strictly on the interviewer leading him. If you looked at the outcry interview the
accuser had with the police, "objectively," there were holes in it as big as Texas
and if you "scanned" the setup phone call, yes, he was guilty. If, however, you
"really" listened to the "entire" setup phone call, there is absolutely no
way he was guilty and there were several statements that proved that.
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- What is a GAL - Guardian ad
Litem - A GAL, or Guardian ad Litem, is an individual who is Court appointed to represent
the best interest of children in many divorce or child custody cases. For a more detailed
explanation, see What is a GAL -
Guardian ad Litem.
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- In he said/she said sexual abuse
cases, the accused must testify - This is a clear message that I have been preaching for
years, but on occasion there is actually something stronger than the testimony of an accused at
trial. I just completed a case where I assisted an attorney as he prepared for trial. His
client had been accused of raping a young girl. As I went through all the documents, police
reports, etc., based on everything that I was provided with, there was no question that his
client was headed straight to a conviction. The last thing I did in my analysis was to review
the police interview of the accused, a 5 hour tape. After reviewing the tape, just to make sure
that I was correct in what I had seen, I had several others review it and everyone's
opinion was the same; He was "not guilty." His interview tape challenged the
allegations against him, not only from the accuser, but from the police as well. Based on my
conversations with the attorney, he filed a motion to present the interview, in it's
entirety, to the jury. His client's testimony at trial could and probably would be
problematic. It would never be as spontaneous as it was during his video taped police
interview. Obviously, this is a very short synopsis of the case, but in reality, his interview
was the only thing that could save him from conviction. The police had him painted as a
monster, he has a rough appearance, very little education, and there is no question that his
accuser would come across to a jury as a "victim."
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- Asking the proper questions
during jury voir dire is critical to the defense of anyone falsely accused of child abuse -
During the past 20 years, I have had the opportunity to assist and consult in various trials
throughout the United States and I have been retained in numerous cases to assist in reversing
convictions for the falsely accused. A great deal of my education has come from interviewing
persons who served on juries that did convict. Shockingly, prior jury members have told me that
they voted to convict because the accused did not testify or that the accused showed no emotion
or the wrong emotion. Obviously, that point is argued by defense attorneys because they have
"warned" juries that they could not hold it against their client if they chose not to
testify. My latest warning to the falsely accused comes straight from a current case. Make sure
that your defense attorney honestly understands that defending a child sexual abuse case is far
different than defending any other type of criminal case. I have a client who was accused of
molesting a young girl. He went through an entire trial and during jury deliberations, a member
of his jury "suddenly remembered" that they had been molested as a child. Sounds
absurd, but it happened and it resulted in a mistrial. The real question is, who's fault
was is that it went all the way to jury deliberations before the issue arose? It was actually a
combination of the Court, the prosecutor and most especially the defense attorney. As I was
going through the trial transcript, the first thing I noticed and commented on was that during
jury voir dire, no one even asked members of the jury panel if any of them had ever been
molested, or if they had a family member or friend who had been. The problem with failing to
ask that question is, you could wind up with someone on the jury who was molested and wants to
convict as a means of dealing with ghosts in their own past. A proper and thorough jury voir
dire is critical to a successful defense and also equally important is to carefully observe the
entire panel during voir dire to determine any visible reactions they may have based on the
questions they are asked. A criminal attorney with no experience in handling child sexual abuse
cases will simply ask the "standard" voir dire questions and they are not adequate in
these cases. For a list of some prospective questions, see the "Jury Voir Dire"
section of Defending the Falsely
Accused at Trial.
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- One of the most critial areas that
needs to be worked with and unfortunately the one that usually gets over looked the most is the
emotional status of the accused. An untreated depression can easily result in an innocent
person being convicted in a child sex abuse case. See Dealing with Emotions when Falsely
Accused.
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- In recent years, I have had
multiple cases where a father is going through divorce or custody, allegations of abuse have
been made against him, and art or play therapy has been used to support the credibility of a
sexual abuse allegation from a child as young as 3 years of age. See Fathers and False
Allegations.
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- A falsely accused father and the
professionals involved in his case - On rare occasions I see professionals become angry and
frustrated when they anticipate something during a case and it fails to materialize, but only
once have I seen "experts" totally "out-of-control" simply because their
"plan" to destroy a father with a false allegation of child sexual abuse blew up in
their face. In their frustration, these "professionals" attacked me personally by
making statements that I train people to "beat" a polygraph and to "beat" a
psychosexual evaluation. Nothing could be farther from the truth, but even more amazing was the
fact that they did internet searches asking, "How to Protect Children from Allen
Cowling." I do "not" represent, assist or help anyone that I believe has hurt a
child in any manner, but I am very passionate about proving that a false allegation is false. I
never cease to be amazed at some of the "experts" I encounter who are willing to
destroy the very children they "claim" they are protecting. The reality is, there is
nothing that you could say or present to these people that would have any effect. They ignore
everything that does not support their desire to save the world and you cannot rationalize with
an irrational person.
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- In the past 3 years, I have run
into several cases where individuals have been indicted for sexual abuse crimes against
children and had the State refuse to provide the defense's expert with a copy of the
forensic interview tapes in their case. This can be very problematic to a defense. See
Some States Refuse to Supply
Defendants with Forensic Interviews in Child Sexual Abuse Cases.
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- In custody cases or even criminal
cases, if you petition the Court for an evaluation of all parties involved, will you get the
right evaluator? Here is a perfect example where the wrong evaluator was chosen in a case and
the potential damage that may have been caused. See Selecing the Right Child Evaluator in any
Case Where Sexual Abuse Allegations Have been Made.
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- One of our most frequently asked
questions is how to handle a child who recanted their allegation of sexual abuse following a
conviction. Based on that question, see Handling a Child that Recants an Allegation of Sexual Abuse Following a Trial and a
Conviction.
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- The second most frequently asked
question I get requires only a short and a simple response. There are no scientifically
recognized or accepted symptoms or characteristics of a child molester or a molested child.
Many times a prosecutor will have a therapist testify that a child has the symptoms of a
molested child. That is improper testimony and, when properly objected to by the defense, it
would be considered reversable error on appeal should that testimony be allowed. The defense
need only to ask the therapist on cross, "Explain what the symptoms are." then,
"Are you saying that being molested is the only thing that would cause those
symptoms?"
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- Our main objective when we are
assisting a client who has been falsely accused of molesting a child is to attempt and resolve
the matter before criminal charges are filed, or if it does become criminal and the client is
forced to defend themselves at trial, we want to assure that they are properly prepared to
defend. With that in mind, one of the most important assets and tools we have to work with when
preparing a case is the client themselves. Depending on our client's intelligence and
personality, we may have multiple opportunities to assist us in their defense. One perfect
example would be our client agreeing to interviews with law enforcement or family services.
Some attorneys advise their clients not to talk to anyone and some allow their clients to be
interviewed as long as they are present. Over the past 20 years, I have had many cases where we
have used a specific interview strategy successfully and I am now sharing that at Our Procedure when Dealing with Family
Services and the Police in False Allegation Cases.
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- About 25% of the work I do is for
individuals who have been convicted based on a false allegation of abuse. Based on that, I have
had the opportunity to speak with people all over the country who have served on juries where
they have convicted individuals. Shockingly, in asking "why" they convicted, the
number one answer was, "They did not testify." The number two response was,
"They showed no emotion, or they showed the wrong emotion." Both these responses are
shocking in that defense attorneys spend so much time explaining to a jury that they cannot
hold it against their client for not taking the stand, and in telling their clients not to show
emotion.
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- If you have been charged with
felony child abuse and are preparing for trial, are you being represented properly by your
attorney? See Is Your Attorney
Honestly Defending You?.
Child Custody and
False Allegations
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When confronted with false
allegations of child sexual abuse in a custody battle, there are three of our webpages that I
highly recommend and each applies to a mother or a father:
- The Father and Child Custody in False
Allegation Cases - A comprehensive evaluation
and study of what is necessary for a father or a mother to gain custody of his or her
children when faced with false allegations of child sexual abuse. This is a lengthy page,
outlines a basic strategy for success and identifies the proper use of experts in these
cases. Material here will assist anyone who is being falsely accused in properly preparing
a defense.
- But I had the Best Criminal Attorney in the
State! What Happened? - An actual case analysis
that examines the normal criminal defense attorney and why things just don't seem to
get done in false allegations of child sexual abuse cases. This case was a child custody
case where a mother attempted to use her child as a means of attempting to destroy the
father. He was criminally charged and was acquitted at trial, but thankfully, he was not
represented by his original defense attorney, "The Best in the State," or the
chances are very good he would be sitting in prison today.
- Success Story - One
client's story following his 2 year ordeal in dealing with false allegations of
sexually abusing his daughters. All abuse allegations were destroyed and our client got
custody of the two daughters he was "alleged" to have molested. The court ordered
any future visitation between his wife and his daughters to be supervised and his wife was
ordered to pay him child support and nearly 1/2 of his legal fees for making false
allegations. A true success story from beginning to end and a perfect example of what a
father can do when they refuse to give up, regardless of what he is faced
with.
- Regarding custody issues,
unfortunately, about 80% of the fathers that contact us are not motivated by what is in the
best interest of their child or children, but rather because they are mad at their wife or
ex-wife, and are seeking custody only as means of "getting even." If that is the
case, please do not waste your time or ours by contacting us. We do not get involved in cases
like that. Our main focus on any custody case is truly what is in the best interest of the
child or children. I do not consider it in the best interest of any child to remain in the
custody of a parent who uses that child and a false allegation of abuse to gain the upper hand
in a custody battle.
Policy for Contacting
Us
- As our contact page says, please
do not email us asking us to call you. If you have a question, please call my office and if you
have questions about what we do, how we do it or our fees, please go to our Site Map, linked
below, where everything is clearly and carefully explained for you. There is nothing more
aggravating than getting a call from someone who says, "I read your website."
"What can you do to help me?"
- I have spent years putting
information together for this website, mainly to help those who are not financially able to
afford professional assistance. It can help you! If you have been falsely accused of child
abuse, your first concern should be to educate yourself so that you know factually what is
going on and what could be ahead of you.
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